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  每天写5000还是坚持了两天,算是给曾经自己一片空白的补足。连续几天的流利说英语打卡,感觉还是有用,尤其是今天到了中级,有些英语当中的精典都要出来了。其中一篇是关于如何与人相处的:

1,Don’t criticize, condemn or complain. Instead of condemning people, let’s try to understand them. Let’s try to figure out why they do what they do. Criticism is dangerous sometimes, because it might wound a person’s pride, hurt his sense of importance, and even arouse resentment. When dealing with people, we are not dealing with creatures of logic. We are dealing with creatures of emotion.

2,Give honest and sincere appreciation. One of the most neglected virtues is appreciation, but it’s important in a relationship. Somehow, we neglect to praise our families or friends. Or fail to encourage them when they have done something good. Let’s try to figure out the other person’s good points, and they will cherish your words and treasure them and repeat them over a lifetime.

3,Arouse in the other person and eager want. If there is any one secret of success, it lies in the ability to understand the other person’s point of view and see things from that person’s angle. Stop telling them what you want and try to help them realize it’s for their benefit.

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